You are of course an idiot. Your disregard for basic manners and hospitality is par for the course. Because the guy wanted to take a wiz and wash his hands??? Meanwhile the bottom freak thing (whatever she/it/they calls itself) is secretly taking video of the encounter, completely violating all trust that is implicit in this situation, putting the welfare/livelihood/situation of the man at risk. the THING should be punished. and seriously it/she/?? should be grateful to be getting anything from anyone, let alone this stud horse.